《不讓情緒作主人》

不讓情緒作主人
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一位賣菜的老奶奶在市場裡，看到一個小男孩獨自在市場上徘徊，看起來有些慌張，於是，老奶奶就上前問他：「孩子，怎麼一個人呢？你的媽媽在哪裡？」
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男孩說：「我不知道，我跟著母親出來買東西。突然，我看到一隻貓好可愛，我追過去想要跟牠玩，沒想到再回頭就找不到媽媽了。」
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老奶奶心疼地拉著孩子的手安撫。突然，男孩的母親出現了，她一看到老奶奶拉著兒子的手，不分青紅皂白便兇狠地吼：「妳想幹嘛？！妳是不是想拐走我的小孩？！」男孩的母親聲音很大，市場上每個人都轉過頭驚訝地看著這場騷動。
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老奶奶說：「我沒有把他拐走，我只是看到他迷路了，所以想要幫幫他。」
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生氣的母親根本不理會老奶奶，教訓著小男孩說：「以後，你不准再和陌生人說話了，不然媽媽真的不要你了。」說完，拽著小男孩的手走了。
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老奶奶雖然覺得有些委屈，但還是摸摸鼻子繼續賣菜。
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沒想到幾天後，這個孩子的媽媽，臉色發白的來找老奶奶，擔心地問：「好心的老奶奶呀，妳有沒有看見我的孩子呀？他不見了，你能幫幫我嗎！」
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老奶奶雖然不高興見到她，但是，她能夠理解這位母親焦急的心情，所以仍然幫忙找小孩。不久之後，她發現男孩躲在一個空的攤子後面發抖，她問男孩為什麼會躲在那裡。
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男孩說：「我看到一隻貓寶寶，想要跟牠玩，但是牠的媽媽出現了，還非常兇狠的要攻擊我，我好害怕！！所以，就躲在這裡了。」
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老奶奶把小男孩帶回他的母親身邊，他的母親非常感謝她的幫助，同時也為上次的行為道歉。
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老奶奶說:「我沒有把妳上次在市場對我的侮辱放在心上。但是，我希望妳能改掉妳的壞脾氣，學會更溫柔、更理性、更有禮貌的去處理事情。」
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一個人能力不好，不一定會成功，但是當情緒管理不好，則一定不會成功。
所以，我們要學習控制情緒作自己的主人。
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#忍辱的智慧、#情緒管理、#不讓情緒作主人、#作自己的主人
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Do not let your emotions get the better of you

An old lady who is a vegetable seller in the market saw a young boy wandering alone in the market. He looked a bit panicky. Hence, the old lady approached him and asked, "Dear child, why are you alone? Where is your mother?"

The boy said, "I don't know. I was following my mother out shopping and saw a really cute cat and tried to chase after it. By the time I turn around, I lost sight of my mother."

The old lady held the child's hand wanting to console him. All of a sudden, the boy’s mother appeared. When she saw a stranger holding her son’s hand, she yelled indiscriminately and furiously: “What are you doing?! Are you trying to kidnap my child?!”
The mother’s voice was so loud that everyone in the market turned their heads and looked at the turmoil in surprise.

The old lady said: "I didn't abduct him. I just saw that he was lost and just wanted to help.” The angry mother simply ignored the old lady and told the little boy, "In future, you mustn't talk to strangers anymore. Otherwise, I would really disown you." Then she took the boy's hand and left.

Although the old lady felt indignant, she continued with selling vegetables. A few days later, the boy’s mother came unexpectedly to look for the old lady. She asked worriedly: "Kind granny, did you happen to see my child? He was gone. Can you help me?"

Although the old lady was unhappy to see her, she could understand the mother’s anxious mood, so she still helped find the boy. Soon after, she found the boy shivering behind an empty stall. She asked the boy why he was hiding there.

The boy said: "I saw a kitten and wanted to play with it, but its mother appeared and was very aggressive to me. I was so scared!! So, I hid here."

The old lady brought the little boy back to his mother. His mother was very grateful for her help and also apologized for her previous rash behavior.

The old lady said: “I don’t mind the insults that I had in the market previously. However, I hope that you could get rid of your bad temper and learn to be more gentle, rational and polite.”

One may not enjoy success without some capabilities. However, if one cannot manage his emotions well, he will definitely not enjoy success in life.
Therefore, we must learn to control our emotions and not let it get the better of us.

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《看清事物的全貌，快樂生活。》

看清事物的全貌，快樂生活。
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我們都想快樂的生活，但經常遇到挫折時就會產生煩惱。
其實，煩惱很多時候是由自己造成的。
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當精神境界不夠高，對事情的解讀就會有偏差，
就像「盲人摸象」的故事一般，無法理解事物的全貌。
另一方面，當私心佔據內心，面對生命的時候，就容易產生煩惱。
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為何不讓自己大氣一些?
付出愛與包容，給朋友更多的幫助!!
當心胸慢慢博大了，煩惱也會開始瓦解。。。

Learn to have a complete, unbiased view and live a happy life.

All of us crave for happiness, but we often become troubled when we encounter obstacles.
Very often, we are the cause of our own troubles.

When our spiritual level is not high enough, we tend to misinterpret events that happen to us.
Just like the blind men in the story “Blind men and an elephant”, we will not be able to understand the full picture.
And when selfishness occupies our hearts, troubles will plague us in many ways.

Why don’t we try to be more magnanimous?
Offer more help to our friends, and be more loving and tolerant towards them!
As our hearts expand, our troubles will also start to fade…

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